I am 34 and have ADHD + Anxiety + Hyperventilation syndrome and as a teenager extreme ODD & substance abuse. I was a lifelong textbook for most negative traits and behaviours - reckless driving, criminal behaviour, average/low academic achievement, extremely poor maths, difficulty with friendships, alcoholic at 20, then drugs, victim of domestic violence and so on.
I was diagnosed with ADHD in my 20s and started medication thinking I would be fixed. I wasn’t!! Methylphenidate allowed me to slow down and think straight but I had to learn self discipline - how to plan, organise, stop and think.
But today I can sit (not completely still) and read, I have a university degree and a high paying job where I am recognised for my organisation skills (GO FIGURE) and I’m literally making all my childhood dreams come true. For me consistent routine is crucial. Sleep, exercise (at least 30mins day) to become present and lose some energy, diet – no sugar, caffeine, or high glycaemic carbohydrates, and I must abstain from alcohol and drugs forevermore with the support of narcotics anonymous, and I need calm around me, to talk about my feelings, and breathe!
Oh and importantly daily Concerta. When I am good, I’m better than a ‘normy’, but when one of those elements in my routine falls down, literally everything, falls apart until my insightful hubby reminds me I have ADHD and I can pull myself back into my disciplined routine again. I constantly forget and so it’s a lifelong journey but I can’t believe who and where I am today.
–CBH North Shore