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Thanks to author Brett Harrington.

As well as being on the board of ADHD NZ, Brett is an ADHD specialist coach, counsellor and registered clinical arts therapist who has been dedicated to working with adults and children with ADHD since 2011.

Brett says that ADHD can impact us in a range of ways from quite debilitating to barely noticeable.

"Not surprisingly, the people who contact me for help as an ADHD management specialist therapist are the ones who find living with ADHD a bit of a struggle.

"I'm going to talk about the 5 ‘Awarenesses’ which are essential for the management of ADHD, in the life of a person with ADHD, and are also useful for anyone wishing to increase their daily productivity and personal well-being.

"In my work with clients with ADHD, patterns of discovery emerge as clients gradually increase their awareness of the impact of ADHD on their daily lives. At each level of awareness, they understand more about how ADHD impacts their lives, and how to better manage those impacts. 

​"In this series of blog posts, I’ll talk about the 5 key ‘Awarenesses’ those with ADHD need to achieve a less confusing and more productive life. We should approach these 'Awarenesses' with a spirit of curiosity and a big helping of self-compassion.

This is the first in this series of five blogs." 

What am I actually doing?

Those of us who seek help for our ADHD will feel that no matter what we do, it’s not enough; that we should have done more, or better.

Or if we get something accomplished, we may think, I should have done it a week ago, dismissing the achievement.

After what may be many years of feeling like we don’t quite measure up or are failing to meet our potential, this notion becomes a repeated thought habit that isn’t necessarily true. And if there is some truth to it, it’s seldom the whole truth. 

The question, ‘what am I actually doing?’ is an invitation to notice, with certain detached objectivity, what are we actually attempting to do each day?

To support that awareness, I invite my clients to keep track of what they do, for example, over a three-day period, starting from when they wake up to when they end the day by sleeping.

What many clients discover is that they are not underperforming as much as they thought they were.

​For those who struggle with feeling stuck, this is important to realise because it’s then possible to begin to unpack feelings of ‘stuckness’ and move in the direction of what we decide constitutes getting back on track. 

​We can only begin to improve on something when we know what we’re working on. Becoming aware of what we are doing is the place to start. 

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